Polygamy - Marrying More than One Women
Islam is a way of life consonant with nature, providing human
solutions to complex situations and avoiding extremes. This
characteristic of Islam can be observed most clearly in its stand
concerning the taking of more than one wife. Islam permits Muslim
marriage to more than one woman in order to resolve some very
pressing human problems, individual as well as social.
Many peoples and religions prior to Islam permitted marriage to a
host of women, whose number reached tens and sometimes hundreds,
without any condition or restriction. Islam, on the other hand, laid
down definite restrictions and conditions for polygamy.
With regard to the restriction, it limited to four the maximum
number of wives a man might have. When Ghailan al-Thaqafi accepted
Islam, he had ten wives. "Choose four of them and divorce the
rest,'' the Prophet (peace be on him) told him (Reported by al-Shafi'i,
Ahmad, al-Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah, Ibn Abi Shaybah, al-Darqutni, and
Bayhaqi.). Similarly, some men who had eight (Reported by Abu Daoud
in his Musnad.) or five wives at the time of embracing Islam were
told by the Prophet (peace be on him) to retain only four (Reported
by Ahmad, al-Darimi, Ibn Hibban, al-Hakim, and the compilers of
Sunan (Abu Daoud, al-Nisai, and Ibn Majah).)
The case of the Prophet (peace be on him), who himself had nine
wives, was exempted from this by Allah for the sake of da'wah (the
propagation of the message of Islam) during his lifetime and because
of the need of the Muslim ummah after his death.
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